I would like some feedback on this game I just resigned. I was happy playing and although not expecting to win was hoping to play a bit longer. My opponent requested to finish the game, which I took to mean I was a long way behind (I think they are probably stronger than their rank suggests), and looking at the game I couldn’t see where I was going to make up points and so resigned, however, AI seems to think the game was still basically 50:50.
I would like to point out this is probably against the rules, but a moderator would know better.
I don’t mean to say your opponent was intentionally doing something wrong, but maybe they aren’t aware this is not good practice?
I think it’s ok if you have some free time in front of you to ask your opponent if he has too and maybe play more moves as usual.
I’m less ok with “finish” as it may imply an opinion on the state of the game (don’t need too much thinking and the linked considerations) which can influence/disturb your opponent. That’s what happened in the game btw with an early resignation.
Besides arguments on politeness/attitude, not getting hint on the game is in the TOS too.
Yep - I was a bit unhappy about this overall. Partly with myself for resigning. I felt that I must be way behind if they were asking me to resign and I felt a bit embarrassed because I usually will resign before the end if it is clear there is no way for me to win. I was also quite enjoying the game because despite my opponents likely strength advantage over me, and I am sure they would have won eventually, I thought they had maybe misplayed a few bits and I wanted to see the outcome.
It’s bit of grey area, as your opponent may have good intention in asking you and he didn’t say resign or easy ending explicitly. But i think that anyone should always consider if what you say in the chat won’t disturb the opponent.