@Conrad_Melville I don’t particularly want to revive our past conversation as it was just a mild misunderstanding but since you are asking: after a search on the forum, I found it in the Lounge, dated october 2021.
I had given a link saying that “new” is pronounced /njuː/ in the UK and /nuː/ in the US.
You said “Not I, nor anyone I know, pronounces tube or new with the long u sound.”
I answered “Is it because you mostly interact with people from the US?” and linked a video which said “BBC News” (pronounced “BBC nyooz”). Then you got angry.
Let me explain further the reasons of my question: I mostly use written English. I am aware of some differences of pronunciation between US and UK but I also know there are many regional differences within each country. Also, I started using the forum around March 2021 so I didn’t know you well at the time of the conversation. I was confusely aware that you live in the US but didn’t know everything about your life. If you said “not anyone I know pronounces tube or new with the long u sound”, this could have two explanations:
- Either you don’t know anyone from the UK
- Or the link I had given previously was incorrect, a minority of people from the UK pronounce /nuː/ and you happen to interact with them.
I had no way of determining which of those two explanations was correct. Explanation (1) was likely since you are from the US but I wasn’t sure because living in the US doesn’t mean you don’t know people from the UK. Explanation (2) was doubtful but I wasn’t sure it was incorrect since English is not my native language and don’t interact with people with a variety of local accents.
So I was just asking for confirmation, and instead of just answering “yes” or “no”, you reacted as if I was challenging your post.
Yes I could have been clearer and written a lengthy post like above to clarify my thought and explain why I was asking that question. But hey, this is internet, we are not writing essays that are intended for publication. And I remind you that English is not my native language, so it takes time to eliminate most mistakes and write in a not too clumsy way.
The facts that
- we don’t always write lengthy and detailed posts
- we don’t immediately clear misunderstandings like in a real-life conversation
- we don’t see each other’s facial expression and body language
create misinterpretations that escalate unnecessarily.
Anyway, again I don’t want to revive our past conversation, it was pretty mild, I was just trying to explain my point: several times in the past, you have interpreted as an attack a post which wasn’t one.
About the present thread, the reasons why there are mutual misunderstandings are:
- You have been a very active moderator and have observed a large number of DDK games. You have a good estimation of the extent of sandbagging on OGS.
- People in this conversation are not aware of point 1, or don’t have it in mind when they read and try to interpret your posts.
- Or perhaps you were taking about what you have observed in general, and people were talking about their personal impressions as ordinary players.
Moderators by definition are confronted to users who violate the TOS of the site. I guess that most of these users are new accounts which may get warnings or get closed before they can do too much damage, so that established players don’t interact too much with them. Also, established players don’t usually play with beginners so don’t know what their behavior is in general.
The starting point of the present controversy was your sentence “the question mark equates experienced players with raw beginners”, which you clarified later with “many players, especially DDKs, do equate the two (resulting in many mistaken sandbagger reports)”.
Most of us are, or were, not aware of this fact. We can’t see the mistaken sandbagger reports since we are not moderators, and we can’t see the “many DDKs who equate the two” if we are not DDKs. After your clarification your initial post becomes more understandable but it still requires some mental effort to see things from your point of view, or at least to realize that your point of view is different and we are not talking about the same thing.