This has some relationship to Napsterās OP:
excerpted from an article titled Why I Seldom Teach The Heroās Journey Anymore ā And What I Teach Instead by Craig Chalquist, Ph.D.(https://www.huffpost.com/author/craig-chalquist-phd)
The Journey of Reenchantment :
Stage 1: Islands and Oases of Childhood Magic
We all come in with this, even when born into impoverishment. Dolls and plants speak to us. Animals make magic. Fabulous beasts hide under the bed. Dream and daytime merge.
Stage 2: Disenchantment, Forgetfulness, and Adaptation
As we get older we learn to adapt to the outer world, and to societies often unfriendly to the world of fantasy in which we live. Birds stop speaking to us. Imaginary friends go away. We try to be grown up.
Stage 3: Alienation from the Magical
Often we stand apart from the magic for so long that we forget it was there at all. From this springs the odd idea that fantasies and fairy tales are only for children. Creativity gives way to commutes, paperwork, and āpracticality,ā as though loss of wonder were practical. (My impression is that about 80 to 90 percent of Americans live at this level. The rest donāt say much, in public anyway.)
Stage 4: Rupture and Underworld Descent (if youāre lucky)
When we detach for too long from the numinous, glamorous, intuitive side of life, it has a way of summoning us, usually through our own unconscious in the appearance of symptoms, nightmares, or just prolonged dissatisfaction. Troubles may confront us. What we take for normal and real turns inside out; nothing is as it seems. This is life telling us, āYou were made for more.ā The truly unfortunate are they who receive no further signals.
Stage 5: The First Seeking
What more? We go looking, discontented, confused, but resolved to seek what meaning and revelation can be found. We ask the big questions of ourselves. We question values and begin to study the worldview we look through instead of taking it for granted.
Stage 6: Reemergence, Gradual or Otherwise
Usually this phase ends with a feeling of relief. Vital energies flow once again. We havenāt found The Goal, perhaps, or The Source or The Prize or whatever the great answer is, but the very act of sustained searching for a path brings renewed life and yearning.
Stage 7: More Seeking
So we keep looking, learning new truths along the way, entering new relationships, finding mentors, discarding toxic people who deplete us, perhaps finding new occupations, certainly new interests. A common thought in this stage is, āPerhaps things werenāt so bleak as they seemed.ā Youāre right: they arenāt.
Stage 8: Finding the Magic Door
In Hermann Hesseās novel Steppenwolf , lost and discontented Harry Haller walks down a dark, rainy street one evening and comes unexpectedly to an alley containing a neon sign with flashing words: Magic Theater ā Entrance Not For Everyone. Eventually he goes inside ā and awakens to the richness of his own imagination. You round a corner one day, and suddenly things make sense in a deep way. What was fragmented connects. Meaning appears. Your heart opens.
Stage 9: Learning to Live in Both Worlds
Campbell refers to being a āmasterā of both worlds, but for the less heroic, the role of the wayfarer or witness might fit better. We learn to live in the liminal zone between cultures, identities, spiritualities, aware of conscious decisions and unconscious promptings, logical rules and imagined ideals from the depths, the dayworld of consensus reality and the moonlit realm of intuition and dream. We have outgrown the urge to reduce each dimension of being to the other.
Stage 10: Opening the Door for Others
Which prepares us for mentoring others in how we got to this stage. The Hero would go on stage, appear before the royal court, lead a tickertape parade; we might prefer informal conversation, a bit of writing, a presentation or two, civic participation. We share how we moved from innocence to disenchantment to reenchantment and invite others to find their own path.