It’s been mentioned a lot at the beginning of the thread but for some reason I can’t find the messages.
I agree that the phrasing matters a lot. It’s a coordination problem, so if the phrasing encourages you to think that one option is “more normal” than the other, then it’s best not to overthink it and choose that option.
There was a psychology experiment once where participants were asked to answer multiple-choice questions and really did get a reward for every question where they were in the majority. Not really questions at all, just choices. Like “Pick one: red, green, yellow.” “Pick one: A, B, C”. Etc. For most questions people faired pretty well, ie, almost everyone picked “A” amongst ABC, etc. (the order of the choices was randomised and the participants were aware of that, I think).
So if our red-blue button question is worded in a way that makes it sound like Red is a mass-murdering option, it makes sense to press blue, and if the question is worded in a way that makes it look like Blue is a suicidal option, it makes sense to press red.
The first post of this thread tried hard to word it in a relatively neutral way, but we’ve seen in this thread that everyone interprets it their own way nonetheless. And then everyone is making their own circular argument of “I picked colour X, and if everyone picked colour X like me then no one would die, so why are other people introducing risk by picking the other colour?”.
(That’s why I can’t make sense of the “everyone understands the problem perfectly the same way and everyone is aware that everyone understands the problem perfectly” clause in the FAQ. I think this was a great thought experiment before the FAQ was added. In my whole life I have never, ever been in a situation that everyone understood perfectly, and trying to imagine such a situation is outside the realm of my imagination. By adding this FAQ you’ve turned a great thought experiment into something that makes so little sense to me that I cannot even imagine it.)

