The ones that turn hateful and delusional choose to do so.
Those that turn hateful by choice rarely are among the crowds and you can rarely discern them.
A person that is “hateful by choice” is cunning enough to hide it and so they are usually high in the social ladder.
The loud ones, the ones in rallies, in flat earth conventions and YT videos are not in that category. The ones selling all that conspiracy crap to them, maybe, but the followers are not. If they were such deliberate people, they would be leading the pack, not following it.
Someone who likes hiking while I like swimming is absolutely not the same as someone who votes for the neonazi party and me.
I agree with Gia. There is a difference between “different world views” and “disagreeable world views”.
Well, voting for something does not make you that something immediately. If someone goes to the rallies and actually works towards such ugly goals, then they graduate to “disagreeable world views”, but as it was earlier said, that is a gradual process, so a friend could spot it early and help.
To keep it relevant with the corona-virus specifically, I do not think that a person that believes that the whole thing was overblown or thinks that they whole thing is a huge socio-economic experiment should be ostracised. That person is still quite fine and not really dangerous to anyone.
If they went around hugging people on purpose and sneezing on them, then things turn different because they are actively promoting a bad practice that is dangerous.
You can see this with the degradation of the quality of US presidents over time,
I really do not want to get into politics, so the only thing I want to say is that the main degradation is that people stopped viewing the parties as something that represents them, but as something to belong to. That might seem minor, but it actually makes a huge difference and it feeds that “us vs them” mentality we are talking about. Suddenly the axis of judgement for most of them is not “right or wrong”, “logical or illogical”, but “does it come from our side or not”.
That is the real danger in a wide spectrum within society and while a lot of people were optimistic that a serious all-encompassing issue like the coronavirus would unite society, instead even the existence of the virus turned to be a “depend on which side is talking” issue. Some places failed to unite even against a pandemic and that is maybe the most worrying symptom.
Believe me, some people do not want to be reasoned with. Conspiracy theorists and the willful ignorant prefer to live in their bubble
Some don’t. I didn’t say anything about extending our efforts to everyone. I am not about to make a YT channel to debunk anti-science videos, but I can at least do that for my friends, that is all I am saying
If you haven’t had to lead people in adverse situations or teach
I have done both and I agree that it is hard. Also I am not saying that “everyone is special” somehow (which is quite wrong anyway). I am saying that they do not have to be pushovers that believe anything they listen to. People can be taught to apply some critical thinking if you go around and show them how.
A fellow villager here - a facebook “friend” - kept uploading silly things about the corona-virus. Time and again I popped under his posts and told him to think of the discrepancies in the things he was sharing willy-nilly, but I was always deliberately polite and calm.
- Initially he ignored me.
- After I kept ruining his fantasies he got annoyed and told me not to read his posts if I do not like them.
- Some posts later he tried to insult me.
- After I ignored his insults and repeatedly stuffed him with reasonable arguments he shut up
- Then everytime I posted under his articles he’d try to talk things out
- Now he is out there actually thinking some things and posting “doubts” on other people’s over-the-top FB reposts.
I could have stopped the process in step one, after the first two-three posts which he failed to consider any other points, but I didn’t. Not really because I am a good person, but because I like arguing. People are not stupid. Some might be too far gone and there is nothing we can do, sure (like we can see in the first minute of the video), but there are people we can actually help, especially if we stay calm and treat them correctly without insulting them for falling for scams and peddlers of fantasies.
And even if we do not want to help actively @Eugene is correct. We need to be venturing out of our comfort zone and stand up for what is correct and scientific. Just re-thinking about such issues and having to explain them to others is a great mental exercise and it keeps our minds fresh, imho.