I had looked through closer to 50 games, finding almost no incidences of what you’re claiming.
Are you really saying that “play fast, lose fast” is a “suggestion”? REALLY?
Yes, I really am stating that, depending on one’s mastery of English, or even based on the inherent lack of inflection from text alone, it very well could have been echoing the very common wisdom in go that one should strive to play more games rather than waste time reading out moves badly, at least starting off. You know, lose your first 50/100 games as quickly as possible and all that. It could have meant many things, but to be honest, I think you have such tunnel vision that you would take someone saying “hello” as a slight against your play speed at this point.
IMO any talking to your opponent is inappropriate, unless he/she is your friend IRL, or you two agree to terms beforehand.
It’s ok to have that opinion, but you have to realize that OGS is more community-oriented, so that opinion is unlikely to be shared here. I’ve made a few friends on here by talking with them in games. Also helps to build up a community of people whom I’d enjoy playing again.
But what will it actually do?
It’s the Malkovich log (of Being John Malkovich fame), which is like chat, but anything you type there is only visible to anyone else after the game. The idea is to write up your reasoning behind a move, what you’re trying to do, etc., so that you and/or your opponent/spectators can review it post-game. It’s fairly rarely used, except in some of the teaching groups, so you’re unlikely to see anything there especially in a live game, and if you do, it will likely just be comments about moves once the game’s over.
EDIT: Oh, and as for the tournament regulations nonsense, this isn’t a tournament; it’s a go server. Even most real life games aren’t tournaments. In real life, if you encountered someone like that, you wouldn’t play with them anymore, but if you did that to everyone, you’d run out of people to play with. In that event, you’d hopefully come to the logical conclusion that the problem may in fact lie with you. I’m not saying to speed up your play if you don’t want to, I’m saying perhaps take a step back and reevaluate how you’re reacting to these situations. I say this because, from what I’ve seen, you’ve been far more abrasive than any of your opponents anyway.