First move etiquette

That does not bother me one jot when playing as White. The on-screen board in that case imitates the board as shown in Go books or newspaper columns. People who have not played real-life Go will not be bothered by Black playing elsewhere than the upper right corner, nor will people who do not possess or have not read Go books or magazine articles. I do not fall into either of those categories, so it is simply out of the question. I am not about to fight 47 years of Go playing experience and habit at my age. I just cancel the game and both sides forget about it. This is not a big deal.