But communication usually involves more than just reading or listening. You tend to need to know or understand the context.
If you interview a sports fan after a game where the deciding or winning factor was something controversial, a last minute penalty, a foul that leads to some extra points, or just generally something people would disagree with is fair play or so on, you might hear
- X didn’t win, they cheated
- X didn’t win, we were robbed or we lost
- X didn’t win, such and such shouldn’t have been allowed (wrong decision)
It’s not that hard to think that X did win, by whatever the rules of the game were, but it wasn’t deserved and it should be or will be appealed.
Let’s say you watch Cristian Chirilă react to Magnus and Ian splitting the World Blitz championship title
and he says things like
I feel like okay but this is cutting some slack to to the players which I feel should be the recipient of
somewhat of a backlash because you cannot split a world championship title
and
I mean this is just simply is not going to bode well bode well for who for the players first of all this is not a world championship title they have right now I mean this is this is BS
do you think he literally means they don’t have a world championship title, and that you cannot split a world championship title, despite the fact that that’s what FIDE, Magnus and Ian agreed to and that’s what happened?
Because
this just seems like a way to not even try to understand someone.
In fact I would argue that communication only becomes a nightmare when one person refuses to try to understand what the other is saying, as you’re explaining above.
I haven’t disagreed on any fact like
All I’m doing is trying to give the benefit of the doubt to @Counting_Zenist who is obviously unhappy about the result, and I don’t believe they don’t believe the result is a “fact” as if it never happened, or happened differently than what we can all see, but rather disagrees with the outcome strongly.
I take this sort of stuff in the same way you might dispute whether Kramnik is really a World Chess champion if he beat Kasparov when he had split from FIDE and had the title stripped from him etc.
The facts are the results of matches, and then the rest is just semantics and interpretations.
It’s like you can debate whether the so called “World Go Championship” is really a world championship, which upon winning lends you a legitimate claim to be called World Champion?