You could be right on this, but I am not sure if the win rate of the idea was considered in this instance, at all. I will admit that it makes no difference to me if it is easier to win if someone opts for a mirror Go strategy or not.
As you said it is all a matter whether the opponent is prepared or not, like luring someone into playing Taisha and you know the joseki and the opponent doesn’t, thus you gain an advantage.
But if they do know the joseki, then it is all 50-50 since it is a joseki, thus considered generating relatively equal results (depending on the whole boards etc, but let us not be too analytic on that). Ergo learning a complex joseki will either result in your advantage or a fair position.
That’s all nice and dandy, because it is engaging. The opponent actually does something and if you do not know what they are doing, then that is something exciting.
Similar to that, a mirror Go strategy will either result in your advantage (if the opponent is unsuspecting or not prepared) or a fair position with a slight advantage (presumably after the opponent plays a sub-optimal move in the hopes that this charade will end) or a slight disadvantage for you if the opponent knows exactly what’s up and knows how to break a mirror Go strategy (which is not trivial, else it would have not been explored in pro games, as someone mentioned).
I understand the appeal of using it. No argument there.
All I am saying is that this is where the similarities with a complex joseki end, since what you are describing is someone waiting in ambush for a mistake or an optimal position to break the mirror. Good for them, but they are not engaging the board/opponent. That is, after all, the point of an ambush. You lie in wait doing nothing.
The opponent is not doing anything.
You are doing all the work and they are just waiting to discern if you do not know much about mirror Go (ergo you are a mark) or you know about it (ergo they should break off first). Again, that’s nice on their end, but I do not see how that is appealing on my end.
I wanted to play a strategy game, not hide and seek.
So, my solution to this issue is to see the trap and avoid it, by not falling for it.
They are doing this to win? Fine. They won. Byeee! 
Is this an “intellectual” solution? No. I’d say it might be on the simplistic side of things, but that’s what I like in this case.
If you like a funny simile it is like lying in wait for a wild boar to appear so you can hunt it.
The boar sees you, chooses not to appear in your line of sight, but somehow when you return home you realise that the boar sent you some pork chops from the butcher’s 