I hate playing annonymous people and exchanging nothing more than “hi gg” and “thx gg” Yet I rarely have the chance to play in real life. If I am to spend over 30 minutes with someone I like to know who I am playing with and if the person is in a similar mindset and not just clicking moves to kill time. (That’s not to say that having other ideas and opinions about playing is wrong, this is just how I like it.)
That’s why I made several friends on OGS and opted to play them whenever possible. However none of them seem to appear online anymore (hope it’s not because of me). So, if you would also prefer playing with a “friend” and do not mind exchanging several lines of chat during games, please consider adding me to your friendlist.
I like longer (but live only) games. I don’t mind playing weaker players and doing reviews afterwards (if I have the time). I don’t mind playing stronger players and getting destroyed. Sometimes I make stupid jokes, but I am working on minimazing it. If I see no chance of winning I resign. I am GMT +1.
Cheers
Online I play only correspondence games, and these sometimes allow for long conversations where we learn a lot about each other … I can say I have found people online whom I call “friends” … connected on other networks, too … some visited … really nice to see how the world grows smaller this way … heart-warming and mind-expanding
I usually play correspondance games here and live games IRL. I find it easier to “take time” when it’s “for real” But it doesn’t mean I don’t or never will, so I’ll be glad to invite you next time that I can play a live game.
My time zone is also GMT+1.
Looking at my early games, the 2x kyus I played often don’t play anymore. I think the attrition rate is likely to be high at low skill levels because of the depth of the game. So if you make a 20k friend and then get to 10k, odds are good they stopped playing a year ago at 20k.
On the other hand, in the 13k and up range I have had a lot of rematches just from arbitrarily joining or offering games, not from making friends or issuing challenges. So I think if you befriend people at higher ranks they are unlikely to disappear.