I am not saying “every parent today is worse”. I knew many overbearing parents when I was in elementary and jr high, but I didn’t understand. I am saying that it is quite clear to me that parents who are overbearing are likely doing more harm than good to their kids. Obviously, there is a threshold where “too much freedom” is bad. This is independent of the decade by the way.
Anyway, considering we played gameboy during class, listened to cd players during class, and had flip phones and texted each other in class… instead of having pockets full of stuff, you just have your phone now. I don’t see too much of a difference between now and then. Things are actually better now since kids have access to better and interesting learning tools. I was taught exclusively on a blackboard in elementary, and then it swapped to a whiteboard. In university, in 2009, professors were still using blackboards and overhead projectors… Now kids can see animations/videos, have interactive blackboards that they can use to explore things, phone apps that let them compete in knowledge games… I think it’s all been an upward trend in the quality of educational tools.
However, the educational theory is still a “no phones, no internet, no nothing, shut up and listen to me” mindset. I have found much greater success in both creating an easier classroom management situation for me, and for a statistically significant increase in grades, by being reasonable and actually talking to students honestly about how to best use phones and the internet. Many students start off by repeating the mantra of “we shouldnt have our phones in class”, but can’t give an answer when I ask them “why not?” (except for the cheeky ones who say because they were told to). If you take it one step further and have an actual discussion, then students start to take some ownership on their learning. If you set up agreed upon classroom rules, one of them being “I can go on my phone quietly, if I complete all my work and don’t disturb others that are working”, then many problems begin to solve themselves. Students on average work harder because they have an immediate, tangible goal they want to reach: their phones.
People are going to “sneak in some facebook time” regardless. Adults that work in the office do it all the time, why should they punish kids when they do the same thing? I see it all the time in the military. If people aren’t actively working, they go on their phones. So, if you complete your work and you do it well, then why not take 5 min at the end of class to do something fun or relaxing? When I teach in the military, I still have adults in their 30’s asking me “can we look this up on our phone”? I mean unless you have memorized every NATO symbol or equipment specification… The mindset of “am I allowed to use a tool to aid me in my endeavor to produce something good and worthwhile” is strange to me.